2013年2月18日星期一
August 15 , Rockville, MD
August 15 , Rockville, MD
Mike was busying in morning. After 10am, he came back . There was another young man with him . I guessed he is Mike 's coworker. He is friendly. While Mike drove , he sat back seat. Mike dropped me in a gas station .
I waited long time, a black man came to me spoke loudly:" put down,less than an hour. ... " my God, my head became big. I just wanted to jump up to beat him. Women are easier to get crazy.i had that crazy feeling at that time.
God have mercy, what I did was that I simply walked away. But he did not stop.he spoke even louder : ". Try to pants down... Less than an hour..." I though to move to another corner, that man looked going to that corner. So I went to gas station store , asked if there is other entrance. The worker was not interesting in my question. I could not get help. I went out side. ,asked a woman who was adding oil into her car to give me ride to another entrance. I and what I said was totally vacuum to her. She did not give me any respond. A famous person said the biggest dispesd is silence. I asked another old man , he explained long story why he couldn't give me a ride. Just next this old man, there another car , I repeat my request the third time , he waved hand:"come in." so simple !
I am not judging people by sex by age by looking, but these three persons is good example. Woman pretend I am air, so she can keep her original life, no any risk or trouble. Old man might be I tersting to lessen some new stories ? But they don't want to join in. They have no extra energy to take responsibility or fun. Young handsome men have confidence for the world for their lives, they would like pay the price or take risk for their beautiful dreams, they have more energy to take extra responsibility.
Many years ago, one day I went to see art Musem in Beijing during I was translating "the best and the brightest "
It is long book, I wanted to take a break. There was a French artist 'a works show. When I arrived there, I found a long line standing at the door of ticket.
I did not want wait on the end of the long line. So I went to the front, hold a ¥100 asked the girl to buy ticket for me, I don't rember she simplify took sight away or say no. And then I asks another one behind her serval persons , after got two reject . I scanned whole line, and then I walked directly to the tallest most handsome young man, After listen my request, he did not say anything , just took my ¥100, that means he will buy ticket for me . The view brought several other people come to him, he did same, simply took their money in his hand. After his turn to the window, he held a banch of tickets and changes out of line, gave every one ticket and change. some money could not have small change , people help each other, every thing worked well. Wait he did was not only help visitors, also helped the ticket window, down loaded their work. I trust him, he trust me, that 's very simple. He did not think " Wo, your this ¥100 is real or fake? There are so many people online, why you ask me not others?.. I but ticket for you what good for me? I stand here long time, why you want to take easy! No such thing, go back, stand in line!"
Men, young, good looking people , tend to have positive mind to the world, because the world love them, treat them in good, they know people are good , world is beautiful. They tend to respond in same way.
His name Michael. That suprised me. I met too Michaels, they are all very nice. Michael drove me far away than next entrance, than out of town. He is same nice as other Michaels.
After several transfers, I walked through the. Construction road, and then waited at a intersection. A lady was waiting to make right turn. Her window was down. I thought I may try to ask her. Luckily she promise to check how to Juya 's address. It was 4 miles. I did not know it was so close. She agreed to take me there.
Her name is Linda. Her job is clean tech
Same as Juya 's job, she mention work in military , i rembered Juya 's husband work in navy .
When we get the address, I checked the door first , I saw " welcome Spring " on the board , I felt so happy to see that . I heard David saying " it's Spring! " Juya ran out , we hugged each other. We are so happy so excited. Juya met Linda, the interesting is Linda works in same build ing with Juya 's husband Kirt . Just upstair , she know him. Small world .
Linda is Sean 's ex wife 's name , who lives in santa Rosa . now three women in a photo. I am Sean current wife , Juya ex wife , Linda has same name as Sean another ex wife , who lives in Santa Rosa .
I could feel my visiting is so welcome. When I went to upstair to my bedroom, there was paper on the door ,writing " for american chinese Spring only " in Chinese character.the bed decreation colorful lights . I knew how much mind cost , I was touched by Juya 's heart. She spent time to prepare for visiting. She put her heart her love everywhere in her house, she wanted me know : I am welcomed. Comparing Jene Yanyan , that's big different . I am so thankful to Juya and her family, they are more than happy to revive me. She is blessed to mary Kirt and have such two wonderful kids David and Cain .
A noppo lady Muma came to teach Juya to make potato salad . Evening we went to party , their friend Jany passed the test of tax, so celebrate. I thought of myself. I spent two nights on learning to do tax , and then I do tax return for my home every year. I have no any interest for " test ".
I played flute, two irish folk songs. Juya sang a song in Chinese and english. It is Olympic song , china is good .
Her singing is good .
I and kirg and kids came back early , Juya with Jane family watch movie .
Kirt and kids are very nice . They asked what I need . I could feel their kindness. Juya is blessed to have such nice family .
Juya still keep the book that Sean bought for her to learn english. She opened the book, sang a song. She told me. Sean taught her this song . I was touched by this story,. Juya told me two times " don't tell other people I am Sean 's ex wife. Even my husband don't know that ." I reelect her decision. I thought that marriage might be a bitter memory in her life, of may e
May be she just feel shy she married a old man to come go this country.
I pray God help Juya put down the burden from her past life. Enjoy her life now and bless her and her home!
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